tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42170806233007805552024-02-19T03:05:37.154-08:00The Last SupperStacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-55349111065800555042014-01-05T07:39:00.000-08:002014-01-05T07:39:14.349-08:00A Year!?!?!Wow...it's been a year since I last blogged! It's a funny thing when life happens. Real funny. Funny good, real good! I'm happier than I've ever been and I'm soooooo close to finishing this PhD. I should be writing right now, but I'm writing this instead. On the weightloss front, I've still lost the weight of an average sized adult. I know what my numbers are and I have friends who are only 20 lbs less than me, but I'll be honest, I still feel like I'm 100 lbs more. Obviously I KNOW my weight is well within a reasonably healthy amount and when I told my surgeon that I wanted to lose another 30 lbs, his comment was "I don't know where you'd lose it from." Now THAT was music to my ears and makes this extra 20-30 lbs I feel like I'm "hanging onto" a little better. I need to have plastic surgery to remove all this "left over!" NEED. I have sworn that I won't have any surgery in 2014, considering I met my out of pocket last year (ankle surgery in January and herniated disc repair in my neck in August). However, I'd make an allowance for reconstructive surgery. It won't be fun. It actually scares me. But it NEEDS to happen. After being as overweight as I was, you go into surgery knowing that when the weight is gone, there will be "leftovers." But, I don't think until your'e really there, you understand the power of it. It's hard knowing how much I've lost that I still can't wear the next size down of pants, purely because of the leftovers. Very hard. It's hard knowing that a shirt won't fit because of the leftovers on your arms. Sucks. It's also very expensive...the surgery. $10,000 at least. Who has that kind of money? I think even if I saved it up it would take me years and years and years. I don't want to wait years and years and years. I can't. It's hard. Hard on the psyche. I suppose I could start wearing one of those "suck 'em ups" to make it "look" a little differently, but who really likes to wear those. I said, going into this, that it is what it is and who cares really. That's what I tried to convince myself, but every time I get out of the shower...I care. Big sigh. It is what it is...and unless I win the lottery, I suppose it will be this way, for a long time. I'm lucky to have someone who loves me...in spite of the leftovers. Loves me as the person I am...and really does believe "it is what it is." I'm thankful for that, and I suppose I really just need to start working on that myself. Yep. It is what it is. Yep. Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-30086794300370974962012-12-11T19:23:00.000-08:002012-12-11T19:46:22.325-08:00Pushed...<br />
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Blogging. I want to blog, but, well, sometimes my blog gets clogged. No, this isn't going to turn into a Dr. Seuss story, though I'm certain I could make it so! :o) I always have this thought...Ohhhhh I need to blog about that...well, then I forget about it. Once it's gone, it's not likely to come back, which is not really an effect of the WLS, rather than that cranky old brain surgery and that fibromyalgia! By gones...it is what it is, so tonight, I'm just going to write. I'm supposed to be grading, judging, commenting, on the works of undergraduates who are eager and ready for the semester to be finished. I've graded some...more than in a while...so I'm taking a break to just blog. Doesn't that word sound almost cathartic...blog. In that context is sounds very dark...I'm gonna just blog. But, it can very easily take a turn, oh my gosh...tonight...I'm going to blog! In this context it's climactic...or anticlimactic, depending on how much you enjoy the blog...blog! </div>
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So, my latest news is similar to my last latest news. I'm stuck. I'm not gaining, I'm not losing. I'm stuck. In the WLS world, we call this a stall. There are strategies to get you OUT of the stall.</div>
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Sometimes they work, sometimes they don't. I've worked through some of them on my own, just powering through and I've worked through some of the with that 5daypouchtest, and others, well, I just let my body take over and do what it was supposed to do. I've heard so many successful women say, "all I did was eat well...I didn't do any of that exercise!" Well, now, while walking a 5K 3-4 times a week may not be running a marathon, it's movement for me! Surely my body must be reacting somehow!?!?! I've entertained the thought of a trainer, then I realize 2 things. 1. His goal, while getting me into the best shape of my life, is to hurt me...you can't convince me that's not his goal! 2. He's very proud of himself with his $60/hour! Ugh! I couldn't get that for doing private therapy for a child with autism these days! So yea, I'm a little bitter about that. Something needs to change though. I'm tinkering with the idea of yoga. Right now my neck and shoulders hurt so bad, I can't imagine stretching out a bit in yoga could hurt me anymore than I already do. But something's gotta give. Just for kicks I went and looked at some of the exercise videos on YouTube. They made me hurt just watching! I don't want anyone to read this and think that I'm not willing to do the work, but, I hurt all the time and any extra stress on the body certainly can't be good for my body...or for my head. Hurting isn't fun.<br />
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I've finally hit the spot when people are starting to question me about my weight and weight loss. Have you lost enough? How much more do you need to lose? Are you gaining a little back? Is your face filling out? Did you eat too much this weekend? Are you going to lose if you eat that? Knowing that these questions were asked out of fear, I answered them honestly, with a touch of sarcasm. But I'll tell you, it hurt my feelings. It hurt my feelings in ways that got me to where I was when this all started. I wanted to go and eat. You want my face to be full? Oh I can fix that! You think I ate too much today...watch out for tomorrow! CLEARLY not the way to handle it and not the way that I did handle it, but it took me back to that place. It took me back to the years and years and "stuff" I dealt with before surgery, before I even DREAMED of surgery. It made me mad and sad...and reminded me that despite the fact that "I'm the strong one," which I am..."I'm the strong one"...I'm still a fragile butterfly. Those who know me well know this. So, remember, before those words come out of your mouth, whether it's to me or to any other child, adult, family member, who is constantly struggling with their weight, know that the "strong one" has a "fragile butterfly" frame.</div>
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On another note, I had a stomach virus yesterday...started at 4:00 A.M. by 10:00 a.m. I'd lost 3 lbs. This morning, I'd lost 5! Now, I was miserable and I'm paying very close attention to what I put in my mouth, because the LAST thing I wanna do is gain them back. I'm so close to another milestone number, which gets me about 40lbs away from my goal. How crazy is that!?!? Woo woo woo! </div>
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Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-23620227173086331192012-11-16T19:31:00.003-08:002012-11-16T19:56:10.440-08:00It's been how long!?!?!This is my 3rd time to try to write this. Twice it has been deleted by my hitting the backspace button or the undo button and well, it would just disappear and I couldn't get back. So, I'm now afraid that all my poetic license has been spent!! So, my journey...it's been a year...a long year and intense instant gratification at the beginning, followed by little spurts of reinforcement, and then long long dry spell (stalls). Somehow in the middle of all that you have to find a way to stay positive about it. I've found a group on FB who has been super supportive! That's been very nice. I have wonderful friends who has cheered me on....split food with me...encouraged me to get moving..the whole 9 yards! Do I still have a long way to go, heck yes! I go see my surgeon next week, so I'm anxious to hear what his goal for me and how off I am in what my goal for me is! I've given away about 17 bags of clothes in a year. Some came from people who had had the surgery and were just going through their closets. Some of the clothes worked well and others...not so much...so it just worked...give away before you can receive!<br />
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When I found this on FB tonight I knew that I had to integrate this in! I had to. It's so true. One year. Goodness what a difference a year can make. I shock myself when i can put on my letter jacket and it buttons! I am amazed that I can now ride in an airplane and not need the seat belt adaptor and I can ACTUALLY put my tray table down! That's huge! Those were the two things I hated the most about flying! I always prayed no one was sitting next to me, so I could use their tray table!!! So, yea, I'm different, my friend Starr said when she met me in late November last year, "You'll be the same you...just with different geography." Oh wow is that a true statement. I've lost an Edna! Edna is one of the music therapists in Keller and she's teeny tiny....so when I hit 100 lbs lost...she came up to me, smiled and said, "Stacey...you've lost an Edna!!" Sure enough...that certainly puts things into perspective!!! Thanks Miss Edna!!<br />
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I have a lot of stories like this...alot! People at work have been so supportive! I'll go visit a campus and teacher's wont' recognize me. Literally...look past me. I just keep hearing "same you...different geography!" 'Tis true and I'm so OK with that!!</div>
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I like to think that I've held it together, that I've stayed emotionally strong. I hide it well my friends...I hide it well. It was very easy for a while because I just didn't date. It was easier. I didn't want to be that girl that dumped someone after I'd love all the weight. My weight has always been an issue when it comes to relationships. I'd said for years, this is me, like me like this or don't like me at all. People liked me. This was almost reason enough for me to NOT have the surgery, but I worked through it and now I'm working through other dating issues. It's harder for me to think someone would be interested in me now. I haven't quite pinned down why now would be any different, but I do. I look around the room not and I'm the size of the average girl. What I know is that this community is small enough that there are folks out there who are judging or who are making assumptions...and this is what makes me crazy. Now's about the time I just want to pick up and move somewhere else. Start over where no one knows my story unless I tell them...which I probably will. This is the place where I think I might need some therapy to get through this. Either therapy or some very effective and resilient friends...or a great aunt who is a therapist and wouldn't mind chatting a couple of times a week on the phone! :o) I'll get through this hiccup....I won't let it stop me....I've come too far. I'm proud of myself. It has NOT been easy. If there is anyone reading this who thinks that people who have weight loss surgery have the easy way out, wrong. You are so wrong. It's not easy. There's some sort of struggle every day. This head of mine is very full....and while many of you are thinking...oh Callaway...that's just you, nope...I've talked to other weight loss surgery patients and the story rings the same. But I got this...I'll take it one step at a time...one by one...and I'll get there! I'll find that spot where I think, "yea...this is the me I was meant to be!" I'll know and when I know, trust me you'll know!!! It's coming...no doubt about it!</div>
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So, I want to leave with 4 pictures starting in October 2011 and ending in October 2012. This is my friend Christopher in the pic with me. I've known Christopher since he was 2...he's like family to me. He comes with his family to each Autism Family Celebration at the Dallas Museum of Art. I knew I'd taken pictures, but it wasn't until about 2 weeks ago that I realized I had a year's worth of pictures with my little man...who is now a big man! I'm going to admit...this is hard for me to post. It's hard for me to see that picture in October 11. Very hard....and even harder to let other people see it. Most people who see it say, "No way...I never saw you look like that!" I appreciate perception, but the reality here is that I had a problem. That's hard to admit. So, I'm going Callaway RAW and sharing this with you here! Thanks Christopher and to his Mom Shelby for letting me keep him in the pics. He was a part of it!</div>
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The last thing I'm going to add is a video by my sweet friend Elizabeth Wills. I know when she wrote this song it had nothing to do with me. It was way before we met...but what she has talked about at shows is that this song is not about heading out of town to meet someone else...it's about being so excited to be with yourself and get to that place with yourself and how you will get there one by one...one mile by one mile! The visions I have of her in this song are of her driving her car...headed down the highway. The way I see it is walking around the park and the pond...mile by mile. Her line in the song says "I'll knock these miles off one by one." My version says "I'll knock these pounds off one by one!" And that's what I'm doing! ONE by ONE! I'll get there...I promise I'll get there.</div>
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Thank you to all my friends and family who have stood by me. You've encouraged me without pressure. You've ensured me. You've loved me. You've walked with me. You've shared food with me because a whole meal is WAY too much! You've been compassionate to know when I needed a shoulder and when I needed a swift kick in the derrière! All of this I have needed and i appreciate you. Know that. Thank you, thank you, thank you. LOVE!Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-55469677021946945812012-10-21T21:20:00.000-07:002012-10-21T21:20:13.411-07:00It's been a while...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Wow...it looks like I haven't posted since July! JULY! I think I need to apologize...to myself really. When the weight was falling off I was so excited to write...it was "theraputic" and what I WANTED to do! But now, now that things are slowing down, you think I'd really need to be writing for therapy. Don't get me wrong...I'm happy, I'm ecstatic...I'm down 127 lbs! Yes, you read that right! 127 lbs! I'm sure there is someone out there who is doing the math to try to figure that all out. Do what you will, but I'm down 127 lbs! I still have some more to lose, but it's exciting! I'm wearing the same size clothes I was wearing in high school. I went shopping the other day and was beside myself when I tried on a larger size, then giggled when I had to go back out and get a smaller size! I'm a little out of control with the tshirts that I can buy anywhere! All those cute and funny tshirts that I've not been able to wear...I can wear them now! It's crazy! I can buy a $4.50 tshirt! Crazy, but fun! I'm in a bit of a panic that the weather is going to get cold and I don't have any long britches! Every day is a new day for me! It truly is amazing. I'm doing a 5K on November 17, which is 1 year and a day after my surgery. My goal...my intention...is to actually run some of it. I'm not a runner. Let me repeat that...I am NOT a runner, but I figure if I can move a little faster, the last of this weight will come off a little faster! So, I've been doing the Couch 2 5K program and as of right now I can run for 3 minutes in a row...doesn't seem like a lot, but for a non-runner, it's HUGE! So, on November 17th, Callaway's Crazies (That's my team name) will be walk/run/shuffling through the Color in Motion 5K! I'm happy about...I'm proud...and I'm about as ready as I'm going to be.</span><br />
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It has been a long long long time since I've written. Nothing personal, just not much to report. The weight is still coming off, just at a much slower pace. I feel GREAT and am very happy! I've spent this week in San Antonio with Granny and the twins and our friend Noelle. Here's what I knew going into the trip: 1) Those babies (they're 6 now) are movers and shakers! 2) Noelle is a mover and shaker! 3) It was my job to keep up! A year ago I could have laughed and not even considered making this trip. Or, I would have driven down here and just hung out at Hotel Noelle (what we call Noelle's fabulous home)! But not this year...112 lbs down and I was ready to play! Yep, you read it right! It still shocks me to say it, let alone read it...where it is now archived! For the first time in my life I feel like a normal person. I can shop just about anywhere, I can walk down the street and not feel judged, oh...and most importantly, I can ride a ROLLER COASTER!!! </div>
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After our long morning of shows at Sea World, I told the girls (Granny and my cousin Ashley who was also there with her two boys) that I wanted to at least TRY to ride a coaster. Now, let me say, I'm not doing this because I love roller coasters. No way. I did it because I wanted to know if I fit! Was I going to be able to close the arm of the coaster, which is a pretty important piece of the puzzle with those coasters. So, Ashley and I waited in a very short line, which is probably a good thing, because I would have likely bailed, then it was our turn. I had a plan. I was going to go first, that way if either I didn't think I'd fit...or if the 16 year old running the show didn't think I'd fit, I could just shimmy off and no one would be any the wiser. So we get in, I sit down, and put on the lap belt (like in an airplane) which was too big! Shut up! Then we waited for the little gate thing to come down. Click, click, click....snap! I was in!! Holy cow....this is the point that I realized I was really doing this! I'm riding this ride!!!!!!!!! I FIT I FIT I FIT! There really wasn't much time to reflect on that because we were off and running! As we began going up the first hill, I looked at Ashley and said, "What was I thinking!!?!!?" She just laughed and off we went. After what felt like 20 minutes of ups and downs, the ride was over and I was exhilarated. If I hadn't have had such a bad heat headache from the days festivities, I would have definitely done it again! I'm ready to hit Six Flags in Dallas folks...who's in??</div>
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My other monumental weight related accomplishment was walking through the Natural Bridge Caverns. I've been to this area for years and we've never spent time at these caverns, so I had NO idea what to expect! I guess if I had put some thought into, I might realize that you have to go UNDER ground to get there...which means you will eventually have to walk back UP to the top! Well, ya know, it wasn't horrible! We weren't moving fast, but a year ago, I'd have never made it back up, or at least without gritching the whole way! This time, I looked at it as exercise and was grateful to have the opportunity to do it! It was a neat day and I think the kids enjoyed it! There's some crazy looking stuff down there!!!</div>
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So, to end the trip, I met my sweet cousin Ashley (actually 2nd cousin, once removed) for dinner/margaritas! I grew up with Ashley when we were little and have kind of lost touch as life happens. I've thoroughly enjoyed my last couple of years and jaunts to San Antonio and getting to spend time with her...and her kiddos! When I sit with her, there's no question that we're not only family, but friends, and that makes me happy. Now, I'm going to post this next picture and you'll probably laugh at how in the world there could be any blood relation between the two of us. I figure it's a very small trickle down effect, but yes, it's there!!! :o)</div>
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Yes, that's right folks...I'm a good head taller than her...at least! I still love her though!!! I have a picture of the two of us from about a year and a half ago...we've both lost weight and I can't wait to get my hands on that to share with her! I remember thinking in that last picture...oh my. I can't show this to anyone...but this picture!?!? Heck yea! We're a couple of good looking Turbeville blood line!</div>
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I haven't seen Ferrell (on the right) in a good year or so! She's stationed here in San Antonio and saw my FB post! I'm so excited it worked out to get to see her, and meet her friend Blanco! What a treat! And big thanks to our hosts, Stacey and her friends, for allowing 3 almost total strangers to crash their party! It was a great day out in the sun and in keeping with the theme of the blog, I had absolutely NO problem/issues wearing a bathing suit in front of a pool full of strangers! Baby steps, folks...baby steps!</div>
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~Stacey</div>Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-4436866873200292052012-05-16T20:53:00.001-07:002012-05-16T20:53:23.248-07:006 months!!!Ok folks...today is my 6 month surgery anniversary! 6 months! It is beyond me that it's been 6 months! Holy cow!!! It's been quite a journey. Exhausting, exciting, exhilarating, and a lot of other ex words I'm sure! I have had great friends and family cheering me along...I've had strangers from FB cheering me along...and I've actually been cheering myself a long, which, I might add, is a new concept. I'm proud. It hasn't been easy. There have certainly been times when there is nothing more that I'd like to do than eat...and eat a lot...because that's how I've managed stress...and celebrated...and coped with sadness...and expressed excitement, for the past 40 years! That's what I do...well, it's what I did. There have been times when I've been real real mad that I couldn't eat more. Mad because I was stressed and I wanted desperately to stress eat! Times that I've wanted nothing more than comfort food...chicken fried steak...just to calm my soul. I could, in theory, eat a small portion of that mammoth chicken friend steak that always shows up on your table, and then you have this look on your face that says "wow...that's a lot of food..but after you've lost as much weight as I have, you have to really weigh in your options for splurges! They're so few and far between, mostly because all it takes is one and you've back up 3 lbs. I've never seen my weight fluctuate and jump back and forth within a day or two. It's frustrating when you stall. Very frustrating. My sweet friend Tammi just listens to me after my morning weigh in (yes, I still weigh in every day...don't tell nutritionist Meghan)! I weight in and then I tell her how I haven't lost anything in 2 weeks. My stomach is the size of a shot glass (kind of...more like one of those small tupperware containers, but shot glass sounds more dramatic) so I don't understand why the weight isn't just falling off of me, all the time!?! I really can't complain. I've lost...drum roll please...shh...everyone quiet...I've lost 105 lbs as of today! It's pretty exciting. The ladies at work have to take a double take when they see me from behind. As my friend Melissa said,"You'll be the same new with new geography!" My geography is definitely new! I mind still thinks I'm in bigger sizes. I still grab for the larger sizes at the store...I still hold up a tshirt and think "There's no way this will fit me!" and it ends up being too big! I can buy tshirts off of Woot.com now! it's crazy folks...crazy I tell ya! I'm still mad at Plano ISD insurance for not letting me do this 10 years ago!! But I'm here now...and it feels good. I still have a long way to go, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel..and that's real exciting!!! Real, real, exciting.
~StaceyStacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-73266654318698676262012-04-09T17:05:00.000-07:002012-04-09T17:05:55.007-07:00Perceptions and such...There's a FB page of women only who have had weight loss surgery. I see some of their pictures 1 and 2 years post op and I think...wow! I'm very proud of my progress...things are going great...but let me tell you, I can't even IMAGINE myself looking as thin as some of these women do 1 year later! It's just inconceivable to me! I suppose it's that mental picture we have in our heads that just doesn't go away. I guess this is where that whole "you might need some therapy during the process" thing comes from! I'm not worried...I know that everything that's supposed to happen will happen and everything is happening because it's supposed to! That said...I'm off for a walk...which has become a part of my daily routine. I figure if the weight is coming off this slow when I'm walking, how horrible will it be if I wasn't! Right!?!?!Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-1240868206173706622012-03-28T19:31:00.001-07:002012-03-28T19:31:57.535-07:00I did it!So I did it! I made it to NYC and I walked that Brooklyn Bridge!! It was gorgeous and about a mile and a half. When we crossed half way I stopped, relished in the fact that I was going to finally be doing this, then I just stood still. I looked at the skyline of Brooklyn and I thought of the millions of people who walked across that bridge on 9/11. It was sobering. Here I was celebrating, when 10 years ago people ran...afraid for their lives! How horrible they must have felt! How scared! Wow. I just took it in and was just proud of myself and humbled by he fact that I was there...Where they had been.<br />
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Tyler friends...one who was just visiting and the other who lives in NYC and has for a while. Good to see them both! We walked so much that's though that CERTAINLY I would come back and have lost weight! CERTAINLY!!! Well, WRONG! I gained about 6 lbs! Seriously?!!? I was heartbroken...and mad! Ugh. I spent the next week I spent a lot of time drinking protein shakes as my meals...thinking that I could lose those pounds I found pretty quickly...and again...WRONG! Big sih! I've now been back for a week and a half and have finally lost the weight. Thank goodness...and today i fit into the Levi's I bought before my trip! I haven't worn Levi's since <br />
high school! I would just stop today in the bathroom and look at that red tag on my rear!! Silly...but exciting!!! Baby steps...and all in good time!<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;">So, my exercise decresed tremendously, sad to say. I've done something to my back. I tried to walk the other day and shortly after I headed out I had to head back home....the next day the back was gone completely. I have medicine and a MRI on Friday. I'm hoping it's something my Dr can fix with a shot or two! The weather has been so so nice that I hate not being outside! It's ok..everything happens for a reason...and it will all work out! All in good time, right?!! Big sigh.</div><div class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;">So, yea, things are going well. Gotta get this back shaped up and I'll be good to go! I'll touch base with you all when I have my next "I think I need to write something" moment! </div>Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-49781845202129794892012-01-19T20:51:00.000-08:002012-01-19T20:51:29.142-08:00Third grade...gotta get weighed...and such.It's busy season! It's official. Ugh. UNT has started back. Lamar has started back. and SFA has started back. Oh, and I have a real job! Good times! These are the times that got me to the place that I needed to have the surgery in the first place. It scares me a little bit...actually it scares me a lot. While I realize is that I only have 4 oz of space in my tummy, poor choices can still mess things up! I'm trying really hard to set up myself up...mindset and all...to make good choices and to get everything done in a timely and healthy manner! Yep...that's the plan! Wish me luck!<br />
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So, to reflect on my last week, I'm going to go all the way back to Friday! I went to see Susan and Elizabeth sing in Ft Worth. The music was fabulous. The company was fabulous...and the lemon cake was...you got it...fabulous! It was a really great night all together. However, the icing on the cake was when my friend Susan just looked at me...with this sweet look on her face...with both of her hands on each side of her face...patting it...with a "WOW" look on her face...and said, "You just...you just..you just look so beautiful." It's one thing when the people who see me all day every day...or when my family...says something nice...but when someone just says it...it was very nice. It made me smile and it made my heart warm. I'm including a song Susan sings that all us chubby girls have lived at one point or another...<br />
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So, last week when I walked I walked on the treadmill every day and shhh...don't tell anyone...but I actually ran a little. Of course, my run is your walking fast. This week, in an attempt to throw my body a curve ball and encourage it to continue dropping the pounds/inches, etc I have walked distance. 2-3 miles at a time. I would notice that I was walking...and I just kept walking and walking and walking! One day I was walking and singing (poor neighbors) and another day I found myself walking and dancing. Yes, dancing. I do love the Pandora "Gwen Stefani" station! Fergie...Gwen...Pink...good stuff! And I would just walk aimlessly. I wanted to make sure I hit 2 miles...or 3 miles...and I just kept walking! It was a weird feeling. I still think that how 2 months ago I would have laughed at you if you had said, "Just wait Callaway...you're gonna be a walking fool." I think that's a stretch...but yea, I'm walking...and I kind of want to walk. I walked when it was 40 degrees outside...bundled up and walked. And of course, today, the weather was gorgeous and I couldn't get outside to walk before dark because of UNT stuff....but I did get outside and walked almost 2 miles. And, with all that walking I hope, pray, and really really want the scale to move tomorrow. It hasn't been cooperating to the extent I'd like it to. I know, I know. I need to just let nature do it's thing. I need to stay off the scale. I need to just be...but it's hard. The emotional part has probably been the hardest part so far. Crazy isn't it? Somewhere in the recesses of my mind I always thought that life would be so much easier/happier if I were just thin and/or losing weight. Here I am...losing weight...and knowing that weight loss really is inevitable, especially right now (and for the next many months) and I'm still worried about it. I suppose old habits die hard....right?Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-15095479975067442282012-01-12T18:34:00.000-08:002012-01-12T18:34:59.599-08:00Eye on the prize!Ok...so I've had a rough couple of days...maybe even weeks! I haven't seen the scale move at all and try as I might, I can't NOT look at the scale! I have tried and tried. So, I've accepted (I think) that my role in all this is to just accept what the scale says and deal with it. I will say the "stall" on the scale has sent me to the gym with much more fervor! I've actually found myself running (very slowly) in 30 second intervals! My goal is to get in a 20 minute mile and do whatever it takes to make that happen. Now, mind you, my exercise post-surgery has just been about moving. Walking. and not sitting. So, to think that 2 months later (yesterday was 8 weeks post-op) I'm moving my feet quick enough to call it a run...that's a big deal! I knew there would come a point that I'd step up my game, so to speak. The trainer is still an option...and I still haven't gotten the wheels aired up on the bike that my friends Shauna and Karen were kind enough to donate to my cause...but I'll get there!<br />
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So, in an attempt to push myself a little further and to give me a sense of success, I put together a before and after picture. I've looked at these pictures a hundred times, but until I put them side by side I don't think I really had any idea of a: how big I'd actually gotten and b: how well I'm really doing! So..I'm going to share it with you guys! Here ya go!<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">The picture on the left was taken at the DMA in October. That kiddo, ok, so he's a young man who happens to be taller than me, is my sweet little Christopher who I started babysitting when he was 2. We continued working together for years in therapy and babysitting and though he probably doesn't know it, Christopher (and his family) played an important role in my life...in many special moments in my life! One of the sweetest moments was the day after I was diagnosed with my brain cyst I was babysitting...and when I wen to tuck Christopher into bed he started saying the Lord's Prayer. I knew then that I was going to be ok! Thanks Christopher! Ok, enough of that! Anyway...the picture on the right was taken a couple of weeks ago. You've seen this picture...I'm excited to see this picture! I needed to see this picture...and I needed to see it compared to the other picture! I needed to know that thus far, it's all been worth it. The apple and peanut butter for dinner and boiled egg for lunch...it's all worth it! The work is paying off and I continue to have my eye on the prize!!!</div>Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-45007104822426700162012-01-08T19:31:00.000-08:002012-01-08T19:31:55.743-08:00Hikes, roadblocks, & social eventsYa know...you get all excited because the weight is just falling off...which is what it's supposed to do. Then you start eating real food...like real food! Whatever you want food...just 4 oz at a time. Well, just as in "real life" sometimes the eyes are bigger than the stomach...and sometimes the not healthiest choices are what you want to eat. I knew going into this that if you continue to make bad choices, whether you can take in 4 oz or 40 oz you're not going to lose weight. I've hit that hump that I knew I would. It's frustrating. It's discouraging. It sucks. It will get better, I know. And I can hear sweet little Meagan the nutritionist saying, "if the scale isn't moving, your waistline is." However, in a society that is scale driven, roadblocks make it hard. There is a slight chance that hormones are effecting the tone of this blog...but this too is a part of life (and perhaps a side effect of the scale being stubborn). Big sigh.<br />
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On an upnote...I went to the Ft Worth Nature Center again today and took a lovely 3.15 mile hike with friends. We walked for an hour and 40 minutes. Don't get me wrong, I felt it, but I really didn't feel it until it was over. It was nice. I thoroughly enjoyed it. We saw little groundhogs and a bunny rabbit and lots of animal tracks (and poop). I think I'm going to hit the trails at Bear Creek this week to see what they're like. It's definitely more fun to be out in the woods than on the sidewalk. I'm also looking into water aerobics and a personal trainer. I know that movement will help with the hurdles (see paragraph above) and will ultimately lead to my feeling better...right??<br />
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So, I went to a social event on Thursday and saw a lot of people I haven't seen in a long long time! One friend said to me, "Callaway, you've got to get some clothes that fit!"...and I thought I WAS wearing clothes that fit. Ugh. It's a good problem to have, but let me tell you, I should have started a clothing fund months ago! Im half tempted to put one of those PayPal buttons on this page to accept donations to the cause! In the meantime, I'm cinching my britches and wearing shirts that are just probably too big. It's just going to have to be ok. Well, unless of course you'd like to donate! (ha...totally kidding.)Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-66505268794931867522012-01-04T18:50:00.000-08:002012-01-04T18:50:48.862-08:00Three Miles & Clothes!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>So, isn't that a movie? Oh wait...that's 8 miles. Well..still 3 miles is exciting! The last time I walked 3 miles in a row was in college...probably 1992...when I took a Jogging class! That was our final exam to walk/run 3 miles! That was a long long long time ago! Today, I had no desire or motivation to do anything. I didn't want to walk...or play Wii dance...nothing. I was just feeling sluggish. But, with a little encouragement from friends, I powered through! I'm pretty sure there will be a lot of days like these in my future...and hopefully with continued support I can push through! I tell ya, walking and music and A.D.D. are a good combination! I just keep walking and walking and I listen to the music...and my mind races! It certainly keeps things interesting! Here is the screen shot from the app I use to check my mileage! Please keep in mind that I'm in absolutely no hurry when I walk. I walk because I need to and because I can. I figure at some point that I'll get bored with my little walks and I'll put some time and distance parameters on it...one day...eventually...but not today.<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Clothes...I guess I knew that my clothes would eventually be too big, but I don't think I thought it would happen this quickly! I try on about 5 outfits (which again, I haven't done since college) and leave the house in clothes that look like a clown outfit because they're so big! I only have a handful of not clown big clothes! So, thanks to the advice from my friend Cheryl, I have found a couple of Plus Size resale shops! I'm hoping that I can sell some of my clothes and get some credit for some new clothes! It's exciting to be excited about clothes...because I certainly haven't in years and years! It's a good feeling. A really good feeling. </div>Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-9138826043927440612012-01-02T21:36:00.000-08:002012-01-02T21:36:27.799-08:00Picture 'n SuchI've had a couple of people ask for a picture...so here ya go...I'm posting a picture! For those of you who haven't seen me in about 4 or so years, this is probably what you remember me looking like. Those who have seen me lately can really tell that I've lost weight!<br />
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<span id="goog_975711293"></span><span id="goog_975711294"></span>Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-3924680509186029902011-12-31T14:33:00.000-08:002011-12-31T14:33:10.446-08:00Hallelujah!<div class="MsoNormal">As we close out 2011 and look forward to a new year, I can’t help but be excited. I mean really, look how great 2010 was! I turned 40…and had a fabulous family and friends filled birthday party, I’m real real close to finishing up this PhD, I’ve reconnected with old friends, I had my stomach ripped out (in a good way), I’ve lost 63 lbs…and that’s just a synopsis since August! If I could remember anything from before that I’d share it too (damn brain surgery). <o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">As this will be my last blog of 2011, I just want to thank each and every one of you for coming here, for supporting me, and for being my friend! I feel like I have my own little support group and cheering squad in my back pocket! I know that I can come here and say what I need to say for me and know that you guys are going to read it and be empathetic and entertained at the same time! That makes me happy! I’ve told several people that this blog has been therapeutic for me and it really has. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure there are benefits of heading to the support groups that the Dr. hosts, but right now this blog is the best support group I can have. I don’t know that I’ve ever been this candid and honest. Maybe because it’s in writing and I’m not having to say it out loud. I can’t imagine sitting around a table with a bunch of other people, even those who are going through the same thing, and saying the things I say here. I have so much to celebrate…and so far to go…and so much to bitch about…and so much to be grateful for…and clearly so much to say!! Thank you all for listening…<o:p></o:p></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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Today I went to the Fort Worth Nature Center with some friends and went on a hike! It's gorgeous out there! They've been telling me for a while how nice it is out there and I'm happy that I have a desire to get up and go! The old Stacey wouldn't have even thought about it....ok, maybe I'd have thought about it, but I wouldn't have gone. It would have been too much trouble...or I would have been worried about something breaking...like an ankle or something. But today...I just went...and it was lovely! Yay lovely!<br />
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People continue to amaze me...and in a good way this time, I'm happy to report! I've decided that riding a bike might be a fun thing to throw into my exercise mix. I've had a bike before and ridden it maybe twice...so I gave it away. Well, here I am again, considering the bike thing, however, I don't want to invest in something I'm not going to use. So, I threw it out there on FB that I was looking for a bike and BAM just like that I have a friend who has offered her bike to me! How awesome is that!!? I love that I have so many people in my life who are supporting me on this journey! <br />
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One more random thing... I talk so much about jeans that fit now, that I haven't stopped to talk about the clothes that DON'T fit anymore! It's a good thing, but mercy does it look funny to me to see clothes that are too big! It's crazy! I put on a shirt this morning and I just couldn't wear it. It's so big on me! It's a good thing...it's an amazing thing...but it's odd for me. I assume this is another one of those emotional things I have to learn to handle? I've used clothes for years to hide this old body of mine...and now those clothes are too big. I'm going to have to start wearing clothes that fit...which is a good thing...but a new thing.Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-41341220834169379432011-12-23T20:30:00.000-08:002011-12-23T20:30:04.161-08:00Honesty, food and long walks in the cold!My sweet 5 year old nephew looked at me last night and said, "Why do you always wear your Superman PJ's when we see you?" My reply, "because they're my favorite! I love them...but they are getting too big!" To which my amazingly insightful and conscientious 9 year old nephew said, "Ya know, I think you might be losing some weight!?!" I turned to my parents and asked if they had prompted him...nope, he just recognized it. He's such a sweet kid and it was very affirming to hear that come from the mouths of babes! Their level of honesty is so real. So now, I think I look at things a little differently. If Parker can see it, I need to LET myself see it! Reality is hard to swallow sometimes, especially when you've lived one way for so very long! Just like the picture I posted on FB today, "Be your own kind of beautiful"...find the beauty and embrace it!<br />
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Today was my first full day with the whole family post surgery....and let me tell you, these people like to eat! Not that they eat a lot, they just eat good food! I made it through breakfast with my one little egg...while everyone else ate Mom's famous pancakes! I made it through an uneventful lunch...and I made it through dinner with my aunts famous hamburgers! I ate chicken that she grilled for me. It was yummy...but it wasn't that big yummy burger! I'll be honest, I looked at that hamburger and couldn't even imagine eating that whole thing! It's amazing how behaviorally you change when pain/discomfort is your consequence for eating the things you shouldn't! Next week I can officially start "normal" foods, but the Dr. said earlier this week that I could be on regular food. I'm not planning on pushing that limit too much while I'm here, because the last thing I want to do is be sick when I should be enjoying my family!<br />
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Finn (the 5 year old nephew) and I went for a one hour walk today! We were in no hurry, so it ended up only being about a mile and a half, but still...we were outside and moving and it was lovely! I enjoyed my quality time with him and I got to move! It was pretty chilly outside....which again, I'm hoping counted extra towards my efforts! If I'm trying to keep myself warm AND walking, surely that's a bonus!?!?! While walking we were able to identify and name different animal poop and tracks that we saw! Love that about 5 year old boys...Poop is important! This is the same kiddo who recently said, "Mom..Poop is the boss of me." Love him! <br />
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So, I realized as I was driving up here yesterday that I will be without a scale for 5 days! After weighing ever day...at least once..for the past 6 weeks, I'm having some withdrawals. But I will admit that I'm very excited to see how much I lose in the 5 days! Maybe this will encourage me to take a day off from the scales every now and then during the week! Sweet Meaghan (the nutritionist) will be excited!<br />
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I've been on several tangents tonight...a little random...as I typically am! Enjoy! I don't know if I'll be back before Christmas, so to your and yours...and Happy Merry Christmas and every other holiday you hold dear to your heart! Thanks for reading my blog. I definitely think this has turned into a theraputic space for me and I'm lucky that a) I have it and b) people read it and c) people read it because they want to! <br />
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Love to you all!<br />
~StaceyStacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-18144107042105238892011-12-20T14:05:00.000-08:002011-12-20T14:05:18.800-08:00Doctors, calves and slip-ups!So, I have several things to report today. First, while shaving my legs this morning I realized that my calves...my 40 year old calves...have definition! What...wait...where did that come from!?! Really, walking...that's all!? Well shit, I should have done this years ago! (sarcasm) But really...I have this little dent on the side...of both legs...where you can see the muscle! I love it! Not that I'm into muscle showing, but after many years of no definition whatsoever, I'm excited!!!<br />
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Along those lines, I went to my orthopedic doctor, Dr. John Crates (best Dr. in the WORLD...even though he puts me through a lot of pain) today and got a shot in my foot. Every time I start exercising my plantar fasciatis goes haywire, especially on my left foot. I've been muddling through the walks around the park, just sucking it up, because that's what I do. Hurt no more foot! I thought I was going to DIE when they were giving me the shot. I really think they should put you to sleep for that. It is a pain like no other and one that you kind of forget about until you are there and are about to get the 3 inch long needle injected into your arch! Ouch! I'm good now though...all wrapped up and ready to walk! Well, except for the back pain...that also started when I started exercising. I have a herniated disc that gets fussy every now and then, but now that I'm moving more it's decided to hurt. I blame most of my medical woes on my bad genes, but this one I'm pretty sure is related to years of picking up kids while teaching PPCD! Anyway, I'm going back to the Dr. for that in the morning and hopefully he'll be able to get me lined up for shots in my back next week. They DO put you under for those! I really want to get all of this in before the 1st of the year as I've met my out of pocket! The only benefit of insurance is that when you use it a lot, it's eventually free! This is only the 2nd time I've hit my out of pocket, with the first being the big brain surgery. So, hopefully I'll have a fixed back real soon too! Until then, power through!!<br />
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I saw my surgeon today, who was really excited about my...drumroll please...wait for it....51 lbs lost! Yep...I'm not real big on sharing the numbers, but I'll share this time. I figure there will come a point when I'll stop sharing because you people are smart and can add things up and figure out where I was when I started! :o) My incisions are healed and all is well! I go back in 6 months. When I tried to visualize (because I'm trying really hard to do that) what I would look like in 6 months, I just couldn't. I can't see it. It's inconceivable to me, even with the success I've had this far! It's exciting...and I'm looking forward to it, because there's a lot to be done (spring without my partner at work...she's having a baby, and a dissertation to start...and finish!)! It's exciting!<br />
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He also encouraged me to start regular foods. I'm nervous about that. While I am a little bored with my limited food selections, it's been successful. Why would I want to try anything new?? I need to...and I will, but I'm still bringing what I know works with me to the Ranch for Christmas. No slip ups here, please and thank you.Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-20863630454481217692011-12-17T19:45:00.000-08:002011-12-17T19:45:24.560-08:00PantsI'm so very excited about all the clothes that are now too big...and there's plenty of them...however, I'm a little disappointed about the clothes that are still too small! I have my eye on a couple of things and I'm not quite in them yet. Since it's only been 4 weeks, I don't really have an established pattern of how this weight loss thing is going to go. Granted, I know it's going quickly, but no time for a pattern. I've heard many times, and probably mentioned it on here, that it doesn't matter what the scale says when your clothes are falling off of you! Agreed. Definitely agreed. However... (there's always a however or a but isn't there) really, the clothes thing is just another way to measure things. Another way to judge. I don't really like judging...but it's inevitable. So, if I take my obsession away from the scale, then I transfer it onto a pair of blue jeans or the measurement tape and then we're back where we started with the "don't get obsessed" thing that sweet sweet Meghan (the nutritionist) was talking about! <br />
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I wore a pair of jeans Thursday night that I haven't worn in years. They were a little snug and honestly, I've gotten so used to my really big comfy jeans and my elastic waist pants that I was dang near miserable with these jeans on! Big sigh. It's ok though...I couldn't put them on my body 4 weeks ago! Let me say that again...I could NOT put them on my body 4 weeks ago! That's profound! That's huge! That's exciting...even with the judgement.Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-18432594629388554492011-12-16T00:20:00.000-08:002011-12-16T00:20:24.865-08:00EvergreenReactions...I don't know that I really have/had any expectations as how to receive/accept the comments/compliments people make when they see me for the first time! I saw a lot of friends tonight who I haven't seen since weeks/months before surgery. So, tonight, 4 weeks after surgery, there were some "wow" faces! I'm thrilled! I think in my mind I will be the same size I was 4 weeks ago for a while....or actually where I am now, really, because I don't think I really realized how big I had gotten until...well, now. Maybe not right now, but for sure in the last 6 months, since that's when I decided to go ahead and go through with the surgery. Anyway...I did have a moment the other day when I saw myself in the mirror...just my face...and I took a double take. I was surprised. I think as women there is something inside us that can't ever really see what's really right in front of us...especially when it comes to self perceptions. It is always skewed. So, imagine my surprise when I thought I was going to see the old me...who, remember, I didn't really realize was as big as I was...and when I looked again, it's this newly evolving me? Are you confused? Yea..me too...but just go with it...I was/am consistently shocked. Shocked by the jeans that I haven't worn in 2 years fitting again. Shocked by my Susan Gibson tshirt fitting me with no need for tugs or stretches. Shocked that people are so kind and supportive. Shocked that this really is working! It really is working! I've had requests for some pictures...I'm not sure I'm quite ready to post any pictures for the sole purpose of seeing where I am with my weight loss, but I'm sure as the holidays progress there will be some pictures posted of me...especially on FB. I think the day is coming soon...just not yet.<br />
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I want to include this video. I have heard this song hundreds of times...and sang along to my friend Susan Gibson singing it show after show and around the campfire...I know it by heart....but tonight, as I was writing this blog, this song kept coming to my mind! <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: red;">"I don't mind things that don't matter these days" "The leaves are changing, from green to gold, I'll change with them, I'll be so bold..." "Vivid colored dreams, nothing's what it seems, I've turned inside out then back again." </span> Change is coming, thoughts and feelings and emotions...and pants sizes! ...and I'm here, ready and very glad that you're here with me on this journey!<br />
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<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="400" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/62I_-9N7wUw" width="753"></iframe>Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-82655643513711669922011-12-11T06:24:00.000-08:002011-12-11T06:24:44.271-08:00Christmas PartiesOk, so I had several Christmas parties to attend last night and being the social beast (that's supposed to be funny) that I am, I didn't want to miss them! So, I headed out to Plano to my Miss Blair's house for her shindig! Now, what I can tell you is that Blair is Martha Stewart on crack! Her house is decorated so beautifully and the food...oh the food! I called Blair in advance to see if she'd have anything that was mushy. She gave me a couple of ideas so that I could be prepared. (See..just like my kids, information before hand is a good thing!) I get there and walk into a sea of people who I just don't know. I've been out of Plano for 6 years now and wow has the topography of people changed! I did see some folks who I love...and have missed, so that was nice! Back to the food...there was a spread. Everything from pate' (sp?) to iced cookies to savory cheesecake (that I still haven't figured out exactly what it is...but I'll be asking!) And then, on one little plate I see these things...these cheese looking things. Chips...yes, they were cheese chips! I was sooooo excited! Those are my favorite "snack"! Leave it to Miss Blair to have something I can have! Yay!!! Party #1 SUCCESS! No need for a Danimal's yogurt between parties!<br />
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Off to party #2! I'm headed back to Keller to Kim D's. Now, the situation here is that Kim is making Hebert's famous stuffed chicken. I knew that getting there late I'd miss the formal seated dinner...which was kind of my plan. But good old KD saved me some chicken and some dressing!!! I can't wait until lunch today to eat that chicken! I think I'm going to tear it up and make chicken salad out of it! :o) Now, on a more immediate front, KD had Melba Rounds! I can eat those! Score! I got my piece of American cheese out of my blue insulated bag I take everywhere...just in case... and had cheese and Melba! It was fabulous! Aside from the food, we exchanged gifts and I came home with a Bobber floating cooler! I LOVE IT!!! We also played a rousing game of Left-Right-Center which was pretty uneventful until I won! Good times...good people..good Melba...good party!<br />
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Don't get me wrong...this wasn't the easiest night for me. Christmas party...no drinking...no eating...so I figured it's a good thing I like people! :o)<br />
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On another note...while at Party #2 a couple of girls were talking to me about this blog and they firmly explained that I needed to change my blog intro on fb from "In case you're bored..." and explained how that sounded kind of negative. I was shocked. It was not my intent at all. It was meant to be light hearted and I surely didn't mean to be a downer. I'm sharing this blog with everyone because you are all my friends and family and I put the "in case you're bored" in the intro on fb as a way to let you know that there was a new blog. So, now I'm going to come up with a new plan...and even if you are bored...or aren't bored...you can read it! I really do appreciate you guys giving me a place to say the things I need to say...the things that make me laugh and the things that make me laugh. Your feedback and support is much much appreciated!Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-46159296536191521402011-12-07T18:11:00.000-08:002011-12-07T18:11:38.469-08:00BEANS AND EGGS!It's been a most exciting day! I started the day with 1/4 c scrambled eggs...had 3 small shrimp for lunch...and for dinner, 4 oz of refried beans! I made these amazing cheese chips that I made by overcooking shredded cheese in the microwave. I dipped the chip into the beans and I was in Heaven! So excited! I've had some pretty good food over the last 40 years, but I think tonight might just be the highlight of all those 40 years! <br />
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I've had a great week. I've really enjoyed getting back out into classrooms and being around kiddos again! Don't get me wrong, I'm looking forward to the Winter break...but it was nice to leave the office! <br />
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I'm still walking alot...not as much as during Thanksgiving...but I am walking. I took tonight off because my Plantar Fasciatis is flaring up. I'm ok with that...I needed a night off! :o)<br />
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So when I met with the nutritionist yesterday she asked how often I was weighing. I told her once a day...when really, it's like twice a day. I have been doing this weight loss thing for long enough to know that I don't need to be on the scale once...let alone twice...a day! But seriously, if there was a chance that you weighed one thing in the morning and had lost weight by the afternoon, why WOULDN'T you weigh twice a day!! So, she says I need to only weigh once a week...and eventually once a month. I laughed at her. Now get this visual...cute little Meghan the nutritionist who looks like she ran to work and doesn't have a dimple on her body, besides that cute one on her cheek...is telling me...ME...how much to weigh...or not weigh! Meghan, Meghan, Meghan. Funny girl. So, I agreed with Meghan and assured her I'd stay off the scale, but...but...I weighed this evening (because I can) and weigh 3 lbs less than I did this morning! See, Meghan, had I not weighed I wouldn't have known! Just saying. Now I can go to bed a food eating, 3 lbs lighter weighing, fully satisfied happy girl!Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-38700473902419154102011-12-04T20:36:00.000-08:002011-12-04T20:36:40.484-08:00All in good timeSo, I'm not gonna lie...I have these terrible cravings. I have to assume that these are because I'm going to see that dietician on Tuesday. But let me tell you, if I don't get an egg after my visit on Tuesday, there will be a real problem! I don't know what it is about an egg...but I'm craving an egg! Yes please! Don't get me wrong, the food at the Christmas party Saturday night was tempting....but I didn't even put myself in a position to be anywhere near it. Rumor has it I can have beans (refried) soon and the infamous boxed mashed potatoes! I haven't made those since college! So, I assume those will be my 3rd meal over the next couple of weeks and I'm hoping that surely by Christmas I can have a little something!!! Whew! I'm not hungry...just missing the concept of chewing!<br />
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I went to the apartment gym today for the first time and was thrilled that I was the only person there...at least for a little while. I do believe I like better walking outside, but since it's been raining all weekend I had to do something to get moving! 2 miles (not k) in 45 minutes while I was reading the Gabby Giffords story and listening to my iPod. It certainly made things go much more smoothly!<br />
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So, a fellow Weight Loss Surgery (WLS) friend told me the other day when you're not losing lbs, you're losing inches! Tomorrow morning I'm getting out the measuring tape! I need data to support that statement! Or maybe even a pair of pants to fit me better! I did go shopping this weekend, just out of curiosity and left a bit disappointed. My mind is moving fast than my body! Baby steps...and all in good time! I need those words up on a poster in my bathroom! All in good time....all in good time.Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4217080623300780555.post-62701236355547423592011-12-02T18:42:00.000-08:002011-12-02T18:42:23.451-08:00Big Sigh.When I met with my neurologist before surgery he said, "You know this surgery won't make your Fibromyalgia go away. Skinny people have Fibro." I nodded, smiled, and acted like I understood, but I think in the back of my mind (or the front) I thought, oh heck yea...when I lose weight, this fibro is finished! I was abruptly yanked out of this reality yesterday. I couldn't figure out why my hips, of all things, hurt. I haven't really been walking much this week (and I was walking 3 times a day last week) so why would I be hurting. This morning when I woke up and climbed out of bed it hit me...almost literally...the hips hurt and now the body hurts...the feet hurt....the back hurts...I hurt. Shit. It's back. What I know about fibro is that weather is a trigger (hello cold wet weather) and stress is a trigger (hello back to work) and trauma to the body (hello, I just had my stomach ripped out) is a trigger. Ouch. Ouch. OUCH! I think I'm more sad than anything. Sad because the walk I took a week ago, 3 times a day, killed me tonight. All I wanted to do was see Santa down at City Hall tonight in Keller. It's half the walk that I typically take. OUCH! Big sigh. So, I'm trying really hard not to let this get the best of me. I'm trying hard not to be mad and sad. I'm trying hard not to whine. And I'm trying real hard not to let this slow me or my progress down. I don't have time for this. I can't have time for this. It has to go away. So, if you're a praying person...pray to whomever it is you pray to that this will just go away...at least for another couple of weeks. If you can ask for forever, that'd be great...but I think that's a little too pie in the sky. I feel silly asking for prayers for something like this when I really do feel like the luckiest girl in the world, especially when I know there are so many people who are truly struggling. What gives me the right to ask something like this? Big sigh.Stacey94http://www.blogger.com/profile/08627633833572954936noreply@blogger.com2